This past weekend, disgraced financier Bernard Madoffs oldest son, Mark, took his life in a dramatic fashion. He hung himself with a dogs leash from a ceiling pipe in his living room, while his toddler son slept in a nearby bedroom. No doubt, Mark Madoff had been deeply troubled for some time since he turned his father over to law enforcement almost two years ago from the day of his death. Indeed, his dreadful end was yet another poignant example of how the sins of a father can impact his children and his grandchildren as well.
Ironically, a few weeks ago, I was reading a Wall Street Journal article about the problems that Mark encountered trying to find work in the financial services industry. Despite decades of experience and his considerable connections, no Wall Street firm would touch him. There is a proverb in the Bible that says, A good name is more desirable than riches; to be esteemed is better than silver and gold. Unfortunately, Mark was a Madoff and, in the minds of many, his name was now worthless, useful only as an expletive or the punchline of a late night comedians joke.
I think that there is an important lesson from the Madoffs family tragedy that all dads should heed and consider daily, especially when they are tempted to behave immorally. The very first and most valuable gift that any father will ever give to a child is his name. But, his name only has worth to his child if it reflects of a life that is lived with integrity and good character. Remember, good character is more easily kept than restored. So too is a good name