The House that Ruth Didn't Build
A few nights ago, I got a chance to catch Ken Burns documentary Baseball: 4th Inning, A National Heirloom. In typical Burns fashion, it was well done and, along with a compelling play-by-play on the history of the game, it provided an excellent window into the lives and personalities of key players, such as Babe Ruth.
In Ruths case, I really first became aware of him as a boy in the 1970s when Hank Aaron was in the hunt to break his homerun record. Indeed, other than the fact that he could swing a big stickand he made a rather tasty candy barI really didnt know much about him.
Turns out that Ruth was born in Baltimore, which is not far from where I live today, and he had a very rough childhood. His father ran a local bar in town and had a difficult time parenting Ruth. It is reported that his dad beat him unmercifully because Ruth was a very rambunctious and out of control kid. When the beatings didn't work, his dad declared him to be incorrigible and shipped the 7-year-old Ruth to reform school.
This was a very difficult time for Ruth because his family almost never visited him. In fact, its reported that he told a fellow school mate that he was too big and too ugly for anyone to visit him. The only bright spot for him at reform school was that he discovered that he could really play baseball and, at 19-year-old, he was signed by the Baltimore Orioles. He also married shortly after this, probably because he longed for a family that he never really had, and had a daughter.
However, after he was traded to the Yankees and his fame began to grow dramatically, he moved his wife and young daughter to a farm in Massachusetts and began living an expensive apartment in one of New York Citys finest hotels. He also began living a life of self-indulgence, drinking heavily, partying constantly and frequenting prostitutes. He even took a long time mistress. He was rarely home due to the long baseball season and because he chose to barnstorm during the off season. Eventually, his behavior contributed to his wifes nervous breakdown. When this happened, Ruth took a bit of a 7th inning stretch to reflect but he soon returned to "playing" his life as usual.
I find it a bit ironic that a man who exhibited so much discipline at the plate chose to strike out consistently in his home. Moreover, his absence in his daughters life mirrored the absence of his father in his life. I wonder if his absence ever caused her to think that she was too ugly for him to visit. Alas, Ruths behavior is a cautionary tale for all fathers. Sometimes we recreate the very thing that we hate and let our pain become our childrens pain.
In 1923, the Yankees moved from the Polo Grounds to the newly built Yankee Stadium. In the first game at the new park, Ruth hit a well-timed home run and this caused the stadium to be forever dubbed The House that Ruth Built. I suppose that this is very accurate given the success of the Yankees franchise. But, I must admit that for me Ruths legacy is more of a foul ball than a homerun given what I learned about the home that he failed to build for his wife and young child.